Every time spring rolls around it brings with it so many things to get excited about. Warmer weather, longer days, blooming trees, and (š„)…The Kentucky Derby.
If thereās one thing I miss since moving away from Kentucky, itās the traditions around horse racing. Iāll never forget the first time in college when my friends took me to experience the racetrack for the first time. Thereās nothing quite like the southern charm surrounding race day. Getting all dressed up – hat to toe – to mingle with fellow race fans while placing bets on beautiful horses and sipping bourbon cocktails in the sun. Some of my best and most vivid college memories were created in that atmosphere.
Although we wonāt be making it to Churchill Downs May 1st, weāll be celebrating the Run for the Roses from afar. Iām sharing a few tips for how to throw a party like a true Kentuckian with the help of Woodford Reserve and its signature Derby cocktail, the Woodford Spire.
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The Woodford Spire
ā 1.5 parts of Woodford Reserve
ā 2 parts Lemonade
ā 1 part Cranberry Juice
STEP 1
Add ingredients to mixing glass and stir
STEP 2
Pour over crushed ice
STEP 3
Garnish with a Lemon Twist and enjoy
For the decor, thereās no more appropriate way to add a festive touch to your decor than with a few bunches of red roses š¹ I found these at the grocery store and couldnāt believe how beautiful they were! The perfect touch to celebrate the 147th Run for the Roses. Also, elevated barware is a must. Little details like a sophisticated mixing glass and mint julep cups add to the theme of the party. Linking the barware I used below for some inspiration:
In addition to a Woodford Spire in your hand, your next best accessory is your hat. I personally prefer a beautiful fascinator (here’s the link to the one I’m wearing above!). You can usually find them for a very affordable price at local discount stores and there are so many great Louisville boutiques that custom make them! Finding a dress is always my favorite part. Derby dressing is fun because itās a chance to go all out and show your unique style mixed with a southern flair. Some of my favorite places to shop for Derby dresses are:
Now youāre ready to host with the perfect Derby look, taste and feel! Woodford Reserve Bourbonās goal is always to enrich life with substance and style, and thereās no sporting event with more substance and style than the Kentucky Derby. Dating back to 1875, itās the longest running sporting event in the US and true icon of Americana. Donāt forget to tune in and watch the most exciting two minutes in sports May 1st. Cheers yāall! š„
I thought I liked wearing white before, but now that I’m engaged I feel like itās the only color in my closet!Ā Whether you’re newly engaged or in postponed-wedding-mode, congratulations!! I made this post to help you find the perfect white attire for every celebration you have this year: engagement parties, bridal showers, engagement photos, bachelorette party, rehearsal dinner, honeymoon, etc. Iām going to continue to add new things as I find them to this shop, so remember to keep checking back!
A special spotlight on my Darcy White Pajamas by Nadine Merabi I’m wearing above. They’re so fun for something casual with your bridesmaids or formal if you dress them up with heels.
(this next part is easier to view on your actual computer if you have it by you šš¼)
White outfits for EVERY occasion:
Favorite Online Dress Shops:
I wrote down all of my favorite online shops I’ve found some of my formal dresses over the years. All of these stores have great white options ā” Thank you guys so much for sharing where you found your white dresses on Instagram yesterday, including some of those here too!
This is 30! Today’s the first day of a new decade of my life, so I felt like that deserved a blog post.
It feels very ironic to be sitting here writing this at my parentsā kitchen table…the same spot I used to eat goldfish in a highchair š Iām really excited for my thirties. From what I hear, itās the decade where you finally figure yourself out. The one where you know who you are and actually start living like it. This is the year I become a wife! And (hopefully!) buy a home with my husband. I canāt wait for this phase of life and feel so thankful to have gained another year of wisdom.
Here are 30 things Iāve learned by age 30ā¦
1.Celebrate tiny wins. Iāve never really been one to make a big deal about birthdays (including my own). In quarantine I gained a new appreciation for celebrating little victories. John made a huge deal of both mine and Conās birthdays last year in NY and they are days weāll never forget. You find a lil bit of magic in the mundane when you pause to celebrate.
2.Done is better than perfect!!!
3.Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is slow down. Possibly the biggest lesson Iāve learned in the last 2 years. If Iām feeling burnt out, exhausted, or uninspired, I try to give myself permission to check out without feeling guilty about it. Talk to mom. Talk to God. Read a book. Write in a journal. Go on a walk. Give yourself space so you can find clarity. This works every time Iām burnt out. Especially if youāre in a creative field, sometimes you need to do the living, thinking, and experiencing to sharpen your perspective and transform it into your work.
4.If you want to make the world a better place, start with yourself.
5. Seek to make an impact not to impress. āI had a moment the other day that really changed my perspective on how I view my physical appearance. I was thinking: no one has ever impacted me by being beautiful or having a perfect body. It might get my initial attention or even be inspiring, but itās never been the reason I remembered them.ā – Becca Tilley
6.Get close with people who see the world differently than you. Share ideas. Ask questions. Debate. Learn from each other. Welcome opinions that donāt align with your own.
7.Become an expert fake tanner (and always wear sunscreen!). Still mad at myself for being obsessed with the tanning bed in high school. Iāve been using self tanner for a long time now and have gotten to the point where it looks better than my real tan..win/win š
8.When you feel anxious or down, do something for someone else. Send a meal to your friends who just had a baby, go see your grandma whoās alone at home, send the book you just finished reading to a friend who might need it. Whenever I shift my focus from my own problems and put that energy into others, my problems immediately seem smaller.
9.Become a plant lady. They make you happier š
10.Prioritize whatās important to you. āBy figuring out things that are NOT important to you, you decrease your options. And if you do this, you will have accidentally – almost innocently – put in front of you what is important to you by the process of eliminationā. -Matthew McConaughey
11.If they like you, youāll know. If they donāt, youāll be confused.
12.Your darkest trials will make you stronger. Hardships teach you resilience and give you wisdom that you can pass along. āTell the story of the mountain you climbed. Your words could be a page in someone elseās survival guideā.
13.If you donāt know your purpose, you will inevitably feel out of place. Heard this on an episode of The Porch podcast and had to write it down. I think and write about purpose a lot because itās one thing weāre all trying to figure out. The more we become the person God intended us to be, the more confident we become. Itās what allows us to be who we really are even if it that doesnāt align with what the world says is popular or admired. The more I lean into my faith, the more clear my purpose becomes.
14.Youāre the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with. You eventually start to talk, act, and think like the people youāre around the most often. Surround yourself with people you want to rub off on you because believe me, they do!
15. Cultivate your relationships outside of the one with your significant other. This takes pressure off your spouse to fulfill every one of your needs.
16.Read more books. The book Mere Christianity changed my life. Read it before youāre 30!
17.Appreciate your parents. Theyāve sacrificed so much for us! Learn from them and appreciate every day you have them.
18.Replace contempt with gratitude and it will change your life. Instead of focusing your time on wishing you had a better spouse, mother, sister, etc. Focus your time on becoming a better spouse, mother, sister, etc. āJust when we are most eager to make ourselves understood, we must strive to understand. Just when we seek to air our grievances, we must labor to comprehend anotherās hurt. Just when we want to point out the fallacies and abusive behavior of someone else, we must ruthlessly evaluate our own offensive attitudes and behaviors.āā Gary L. Thomas
19.Always better to be the one who smiled than the one who didnāt smile back!
20.Choose your hard.āMarriage is hard. Divorce is hard. Choose your hard. Obesity is hard. Being fit is hard. Choose your hard. Being in debt is hard. Being financially disciplined is hard. Choose your hard. Communication is hard. Not communicating is hard. Choose your hard. Life will never be easy. It will always be hard. But we can choose our hard. Pick wisely.ā
21.Be more verbally appreciative. Donāt forget to appreciate people – out loud – for the things they do. If itās not verbalized, itās a missed opportunity to give praise. Words of affirmation make a huge impact! The more specific you can be about what you value ā the more positive your impact is likely to be.
22.Donāt take things personally. When people make a judgement/critique about you, itās rarely ever about you. In fact, itās almost always about them, their issues, their needs, and their desire to control the situation.
23.There is beauty in delayed gratification. We are obsessed with instant gratification. But anything truly worth having, takes significant time to earn.
24.Monitor who and what you follow on social media. You become the content you consume.
25.Consider professional organizers to do a deep dive on your home/apartment. Life changing.
26.Donāt stress about your timeline. Mine looks different than most of my best friends! Rushing into something youāre not ready for is the best way to make the wrong decision. Take your time and let the pieces fall into place. Plus, when youāre always rushing to the next phase of life, how can you enjoy the one youāre in?
27.Change the way you define beauty. So so so thankful for the women in my life that remind me what real beauty is.
28.Become a morning person. I was always a night owl until I met Conner. Going to sleep earlier, getting 7+ hours, and waking up early is underrated! (Wow do I sound 30 or what?). Be strict about your sleep schedule and bite the bullet with an early alarm. You wonāt regret it, plus it will make falling asleep at night easier.
29.Find a good hair stylist and stick to them! Iāve been going to the same stylist since my first haircut.
30.My life is continually transformed when Iām reminded to seek truth in scripture. It really is the best manual for life. I donāt know why this works, I only know it does work: if your heart is driven by the desire to draw closer to Jesus, you will find joy by becoming like Jesus.
Thank you for guys for hanging around and growing up with me on here :,) All your support and birthday love is making me emotional today. LOVE YOU xo, liv
